This is Poe-Poe, an OG member of the much-loved super savage “squad” who can expertly aggravate, exasperate, goad, test, try, aggrieve, agitate, bedevil, beleaguer, discomfort, disturb, perturb, badger, dog, browbeat, hector, harry, persecute, plague, torment, and torture but also gratify, satify, flush, favor, oblige, please, elate, and indulge equally effectively. She can prank me without crossing the line or defacing up my clothing (unlike her sister), and she can lip off with the best of ‘em, on a dime; I used to to actually consider my outfit in the morning based on what she would say the moment I walked in the kitchen door (“ooh you look older than usual”). Recently she’s been doing this thing where she punches the air alarmingly close to your face and yells, “doosh!” Maybe it sounds dumb but when she does it it’s charming and funny. And she integrates her teasing with consummate politeness and fairness: she says “please” and “thank you” and asks how you’re doing, and she’s always willing to help out, wash a dish or whatever. She’ll toughen you up and make you smile and warm your heart. You just want to have her around. She’s competent and fun, the kind of person you want on your Apocalypse Team, or any team for that matter. Poe-Poe just moved way out to the woods, and tho she’s always been tough, now she’s becoming a real woodswoman (“I got three chipped tooth”) and to prove it we’ve got acorns and black walnuts dehydrating in the kitchen.
Here’s something else to adore about Poe-Poe: she’s usually totally at peace with who she is and where she’s at. She’s not trying to grow up too fast or graduate yesterday or become an adult tomorrow; she likes being a kid, as evidenced but her sweet love-affair with Minecraft and her silly antics and sweet activities (think picnic) with #thesquad. It’s counterintuitive, but Poe-Poe’s embrace of childhood actually grounds her in an authentic maturity which is all too rare in a world where so many of us are trying so hard to be someone else – we can all learn from that. Poe-Poe, thank you for making us laugh so much, and lighting up this building, and showing us all how to do self-directed education every day.